Marital Bliss

Marital disharmony or bliss

& they lived happily ever after… yeah sure

It can & does work out for many people but for others it’s a rocky ride

Ideally; Partners are Co-operative, helpful, understanding, caring & sharing,

In reality: Interpersonal stresses, Work Pressures, Respective In laws, Monetary stresses, Unshared responsibilities, Roles supposed to be played by each partner & their reversal in todays society, Egos, Letting off steam at home on family

How to Guide for happy marriage (You Wish..)

#JustSaying

As I write this went back & all the memories came back; It seems like homeopathic symptoms list – all seem to be applicable to my marriage

Though taking heart from the fact that all are on same boat

Also if taking a holistic view – all are small & nagging issues which may not be entirely justified

• Understand each other (Exasperatingly easy…)
• Show your care ( Can’t clap with one hand)
• Economic/ Social dependence shall have issues

Divorce rates increasing (compatibility, roles expectations, individualistic lives, less communication, lack of trust, perceptions)

Children are vulnerable in such transactions of Walking out of a marriage, then divorce

Signs of a troubled marriage

• Disparate interests
• Shared memories are not revisited
• Laugh/pray/live indifferent to each other

The “ wise” say thus:

• Seek out help from near & dears/ counsellors/ psychologists/ psychiatrists
• Look at how your life is organized & if anything can be changed in same
• Talk about “IT”
• Acceptance of the individuality
• Caring, vibrancy, growth : relationship